If you’ve spent years—maybe even decades—battling your weight, obsessing over food, and trying every diet under the sun, I want you to hear this loud and clear:
Your past failures don’t disqualify you.
They may actually be the very reason you’re finally ready for lasting change.
Every woman I’ve worked with came to me after a lifetime of trying and “failing” at dieting. Some felt hopeless. Others blamed themselves. Most were exhausted from the cycle.
But here’s the truth:
They weren’t the failure.
They were simply aiming at the wrong target.
Weight loss isn’t about willpower, stricter food rules, or finding the perfect diet.
It’s about healing the stress, trauma, and emotional patterns driving those behaviors—using tools that work with your body and nervous system, not against them.
That’s what EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) does: it helps you release the subconscious blocks that trigger cravings, self-sabotage, and stress eating.
And when that emotional weight lifts, your body finally feels safe to let go of the physical weight, too.
Here’s How to Start Shifting—Right Now
You don’t have to overhaul your life overnight. Try this simple EFT process the next time you feel stuck or out of control with food:
Step 1: Identify What’s Really Going On
Ask yourself:
“What am I really craving right now?”
Is it peace? Comfort? Rest? Connection?
The answer is rarely “chips” or “chocolate.” It’s emotional energy asking to be released.
Step 2: Tap on the Truth
Use EFT tapping to bring your body into calm and alignment. Tap gently on each point while saying these phrases aloud:
- Karate Chop Point (side of hand):
“Even though I feel out of control with food right now, I deeply and completely accept myself.” - Eyebrow Point:
“I’ve tried so hard for so long.” - Side of Eye:
“I’m tired of fighting my body.” - Under Eye:
“I’m ready to let go of the stress underneath this.” - Under Nose:
“Maybe it’s not about food at all.” - Chin Point:
“I’ve been trying to fix myself when I was never broken.” - Collarbone:
“It’s safe to release this pattern now.” - Under Arm:
“It’s safe to listen to my body instead of control it.” - Top of Head:
“I choose peace instead of punishment.”
Take a deep breath. Notice what shifts. Your cravings often soften—or disappear—because your nervous system relaxes.
Step 3: Anchor the New Belief
Close with this:
“My body isn’t my enemy. It’s my messenger. And I’m finally listening.”
Repeat this process daily or whenever old patterns show up. Over time, you’ll start to crave peace more than food—and that’s where true transformation begins.
Key Takeaways
- You didn’t fail. You were just solving the wrong problem.
- Weight and cravings are symptoms of deeper stress patterns—not personal flaws.
- EFT helps calm your nervous system and release emotional blocks that drive self-sabotage.
- When you heal what’s underneath, weight loss happens naturally, without obsession or burnout.
- The journey isn’t about perfection—it’s about coming home to yourself.
Sharon’s Story: Why This Time Was Different
For over 30 years, Sharon fought her body. Diets, nutritionists, meal plans—you name it. Nothing stuck.
When we began working together, we didn’t start with food.
We started with her nervous system—the stress patterns that had been there since childhood. Using EFT, we gently released old shame, emotional pain, and the belief that she had to be “perfect” to be loved.
Within weeks, the night snacking stopped.
Within months, her weight began to shift—without force.
And the best part?
She said, “For the first time in my life, I feel calm in my own skin.”
The Truth
You don’t need more willpower.
You need a process that gets to the root.
When you aim at the right target—and pair that with the right support—your whole life begins to change.
This time, you’re not starting over.
You’re starting right.